Chapter 7?
Janice Radway
READING THE  ROMANCE Woman, patriarchy and popular literature
B i IUI r. M i ..( MV lir« liiil day will. Um-liy Ivnn nid In. . ini.micrO had COBW l" reáli«- dui jlilmunli llir Vuulmni wiinmi ne not inintnmrd u< flunking ilniui »Im ii w ni tli' n«iuiKC ilut jjiw. itinii w nuiih picture, ihn lom pcrlcnty «vil «-by ihcy hkť i" Had I uiidtrMOud ihn only «hm thru icnurkjibK COBUMcni vomuicn» torrid |W »• rrlmquidi niy nud vrt f mi dui «íminuitii; prent-tupaiioii »ith tliĽ it\i. IW..iii>f die winnrii ai«j\* it^'uiuhJ to my nucry abiiut díru iridiu» lín ir^hiu^ wiih ,..iniii.-n» about the plcmiin ni the .il inrll r-tihrt dun ■Ihiiii ihm hkui|tlbttbcpariKulanuf ihtfruiiuiilk ptn« I •■m << alm-d I wimhl bav« lO (OSf up ii>> OOMMton with ivxiual hutum ni iimimi« .Irmi» li I «jiiicd IO utidenund llini yiew uf iiiuia">rte.uuiiK * tact I tVRWBKd din ir hrvjtin ilrif ihn hhiuimc rc*diitjíw»i.upoiuiii m ihc Suuiliitii) muiHTi líru Ipc.hi»* lne unipk i-wm <il)'hkm): up i Iv* «k ciuhlfil itirin co dnl With ihr particular pmum and irmn>m Mineral ui ihcir daily n-und ulaiiiv.ci«. Alilmii^i ) lom«! laici liuii .-crom i. dI tin- niiiuiiLi-i um* du lirlj« (■■ nuke din event eipriialh mciiiui^iul. ilir or*» mbrtvtruy wrrr aitrn-rtn<|: becauw dicy fovtrnd iu resolutely tin ih. «\ ihr «r •'■ Min.niiv rr^tiilty riihrt dun t«i ihi  iiu-.iniii|| nl ihr min.m r
Tilt cximl ol the caMUM^IkM I^hm.« iimuin i 'radium and un uilitlinanii' uiiitrnuuditut ul ihm rok*» n »im uid muilu-n am unpiriM'd upon DM liru K1 i li n lirnrll iliuiuy nut lim fWO-bW interview which loni pljíc heliu i I lud wm her i uxoinri«' mpoinr* lo ihv pih* qucKiouiiaiie. lit pannu ''<r ipie-tiun. 'What do lu '<« lir r ihm other mn.-h today?,' I e«pe*ted her <■> 00 ttV hcniU m li« iniwrr willi ihcťlufjiriciiMic« ni dir plín jmi dir nuttnvrln wlu.lt ihr iiiiry evnhrd In my uirpi-iw. I liw unik my qilci\ aKiui 'doNkjf a» i tranuilvc minium alniiif ihr rffmiot nnruiuo un t líc people whu rrad dmu She mpiaulrd In my uurMiuu with ( Ion« nul piiulnu: jiivwrr diJl I Iniind ditlkull (o mlerpiei it lim ead) »ujk oíouí iln. uwiťiu || irnui WĚt lit Irl I'ni >ycik litr I" < ľ ti hrctuw her lupnim iiiiniiliiird j niimlvi n| diriii.'i thai ippClK'd aaaill and aeain in my nil nemínil ulki «»iih t*Jt0 rrj.lcn  My qur*mn pn.mpicd div liilliiw-ina .jn-tul mcilii  ■
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li'i ta  HMKtMHB üiinf;   li n  lud '•• I"         |nlU m «trinkt, lim it luiiiilill
lhe*.tv *WÍ "«>" of ihn. Mini ni ihn women 4ir módíce* And ihrv'ie tmitt iil ilui kind iil'ihiiiji Am) rridmi* n vimethiug ihey would like io MUlmilr '" «'■■li iliitibni j)"i  Seeing (hi- pjrent» nufm^ n         jtni «ime-
ditng tlut I I«) lliry 'hink ihr rluldim •liculil irr ilu-in dimitf . I've got awoiiuu With (cciugv Ikim heir whouv» 'you'vr ^oi book, like         vmiW
juU gm   .IO.II.-1 .'I  da          da          ill          |i minting  an imagiiuty  .Ulk p|
hititk»!' Mwwv   Nin* when you «k Mut her to buy JW......u-lhliift. yoil
don'l »top ind flunk how iiunv iluup ynn have *w. i|Nl » Muihi-i'i »nil ii n iny nimii-s' VH> ifatHM deienuvT. Um I ihiiik (ho» ijet >«-•• ö""' '•""" liliím I flunk ih.-y hfjul their i'iihen minetimr or other uiying. Hey. Yliu'rr vpnutilig in iwtiil l«l iif miinrv "" Imiiki *mrt V"»'' Y«U kn<"' '■ » long Ol», my Ijdici hid 'ein Hin, would lüde ihm iu-ik», iiirrJly hide their boolu. And ihey'd M*, t «h. ji my Umband |we luve .'miniinv Nur u.kv|. II m* huduiul im ihn hluč utk .nmiug m the hmiu . . .' And you kll'W I'd vy, "W,*ll rrallv. ynu'ii- * rug gul Dů fOtj ic»lly Irel llkr you have t-j lw un detenu«??' A while i|gv I would m>i luvr ihnu^hi thai «iny 1 would luve ihmighi. " >h Min b ROUg 10 Im ihr (riling li« i while Dm »jv nul ilinll.il that I wiiiiMitiiig.i Int. lltvau-e I (hink men du leel dir cned 1hry wjin their wirr m he in flu- mom with ihein Ami I ihlnk mv bodv *> in the room Inn ihr nrw «t mr n m>i -w-hn, | ,,„ rr*d«rrjt).
t )itlv »lien I iní innnl u her Uii nbsetviinin about n'jiliii|t »itd in ihiliiy m iriin i ■'' licí out ot her Imnr: room «Iid I hepui m iindefUtnd ilt.n the real aiwwer to niy nuetriou. <vhii h du* iievn mentioned and which w# ihe link berwerti irading, pilh. ind >liiiiki, Aji.mii.iltv ilic uiLi-lr wvinl.'r-nipiýj *.i.»id lim wulJ Um Jppe-ir on in nuny or dir o,uruninn*iici She uilHeiWeiiíy^exnUiiied dul niiiunre noit* ptO-•nled e»i-j|*e ju« in I 'irvi-n nid ik nhnl .h» !■•* "ihn "Vunieit Wlieirji, ihe Uiiri jtp lurmliil to lioih wximan »nd their l»mdic», Hol believri foiiiim r ir-iding i» 'an
......ii mim ihing." A» die tommillied lo mr In inoiher nilervicw. r>im«iic mcfag ■
1 lupu ihn i» m» vrty ditlen-m (rotu 'm Mldiciiorl.'
Allhtiiiuli lome "I ihe -Hher Smidioni «miirii r'-ituml um iimni obdBI ihr suii.iliilics M ihe nlduiion 4fulo|fy, u dul I Ku ni Jimtlirr minu™, ii.nl>. ill i>( tli< .iii|-iim1 uxfrei' «lni |'itin ijuled in liiulhv i >>iivtl-uij<im igieed tlut one ni flieii p(nin)'ii ptjb m ir 'dm-; wíi iln'ii dniir lo du uimeilung Jiifntni Imm then ibdi pmdjm TbH i'hirti w» horne out by die« iimwrn Mílu-<i|*rii-Tnded •jucnniii úmm tbé innroom otronunce iruhni; Al ihn pouti, it teem, wonh i|uouii|: i léw ni ilune fantům trpliri ih.n expieidy vnluitlťerrd ihe ideu of CMTípr and nlra» The Smilhlon rrjden expUinrd ihr p*iwrr ni llir ntinim É m ihr liilliiwinjt \mv
They ire lijdii rridin^ - eKipc hieniurc - I cjti pm down and piek up rllorilndy.
foot u ihnyi mCrV «H» much |W«urr    I l»--v  hkr lionkí lhal lei lliein ■Mipi
Lh jpmn
m»mnG mr 4ow«n>:t    Jřl
I  km«* I Irrl thru- i> enough 'teahty" In tlie wnild and loading n a me-am ni ewripe tot inc.
tteiaui* ii * 411 F-nj|ir |tu|. »ni «r ein •lirjin nul pretend thn 11 n cnir lne
ľni aNe to e». i|*ť the hanh »»rld int a lev houn j itiy.
i        dwjyi wen. m rv-jpr mil rhry umaliv mm nul ihe way you w»h lne
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The in|>iii» ■>( ihr SmUbiitn uoineu n iprurenilv not trn uiiuhuI one. Indeed, ihc »tKi-fimiig tunpjip« nl~ three erf lhei.hoii««ihji have etmilurinl cxieinJve iturLct-Itwanli «tirfir* ill einpflanze the lliímn <if rrlixitmn and nra pV._h|trniixl mdWn ni t iowiiltv Kotnancn. lot example, li«* been mld 111 uiupon aih ilui 'ukuji! 1 aítci month 1 iiu-nin Kniiiuicci ntlťr V"" a twiunlul new mape route int» Immncal Itiiin «hru luv* mil hnutu uilrd the lir in Jiiil mand." Similarly, t hr SiJiiourtte tele-vBwa advnmeiiirnn (eaiuntifi K u ml« Munialhin awned ihatHrje kjniiinl mihiii( mden you frei ui g»od" mil thai rnnuiu« uinihr may ihr innu>m ..1 da MoriultvMi iho I1.111.1I íl«- »slue flr'«mping' into laraway plain *nd 011-1, !■ ulnm H«lri|iu« oner timiinled 1 mvH »werpul*« ompjlun oflcrmu n piiw» rwapr WOWon»' m iimiiiitii (>(.. n In joVIuwn. they inrliidcd wit Inn ihc boo!» ihermehn an ithrrrmini! pape that An rihcd llaileqiomjjr/ih.- himLi lhal let ynu neapc mtcidie miuhIcHiiI WuiM nf múmiu-. ' |n|i» In riniii plat n . MtereMini; plain meeting uinwviNe people. . the rxciicnwni of love . Iheir ire rnirRral pjrii nl Harlequin Kotiuiuei - ihe hrtfi warming no vrh re id hv mn everywhere '-f IWCm lot», wain 11 hue djirrtveerti ,n* e*spr ŔIIIIIHW Ol RHUUI'I lit m Ml li>l M-iryte* ha* »ep««trd ihn ihr feitnpanv found «1 in-depth intnvirwinj; lhal iiiiruiní-i weir read lor lelavmeii »tul m enable |wumeii| to betiei tope with ihc numiic npeii» "I hic '
Křidlu« 10 rttape ihe prrwri»'  " neílhet a no» hrliavmi  nur one petulUf  tC winiK-u who ivml minimcv   In '*»i    j* Hk-hanl Hogp.111 deniomiraieil m   |'*5 '
I  picjfii ""tlum 1 bsprap 1 I "'■ kmfiBgMBäS ma« -y. m minethinK i-mmni
bill mil HOMd m have imiih OOMHCtMa with ihe mallei nŕiUilv lilr" Wlihm ilin koitiitaetthelii. he lohimury nl » «nmelvaWe « 'mii^iiul, j» '■|iiii.'"' a» •nuicihi«^ '■.r vim m ■«•' In ňirthcí eblinrannic 00 il«i(pcfttoo of ßcuoiul cKApt. D. W
II ii.iin»: Iij« nude the teuini oIwcr>'Jii"ii ihai thr\ «vifil ri mini nlien uu-d in < rtli-umu at a leim ut'dhfunirenieni 10 rclei 1- jii a-tivny dm ihr rvaluanw bcfaruTt hau no merit in and «i luell lim uiImtuii appnt n luj;h. he renurkiijn irlaiimi 10 iti 1 niiipriiuiiiiy appeil or ihr tticit rebel H pnintnev then ilie icnn e*>~jpe n mil generally uvd.' j Harding argun. morewver. 011 ihe bwh 01 «ndim •ondm ird in tin Í93fk, ihai 'ihe (uinpcnutnrv appeal pmkinilraMi maauly in uain nt depirumn (M [rrtlinon, rthrther iliry nur (nun »nrk m mhrr . iiik-i " )l n imi'rctuii|t 10 nnie thai ■he nplanaunm nnployeil by I"-» and het «ximen to mietpret ihnt nimaiiie n-ad tii|E Tut ihennclvci aic thu» reprfiencillvo m 1 general *vav on limii t>i hehjvmr inmninn in an irntintiiilin^il tr»-lerj wheie umk u 1 Irarly diviuiinittfied bom and itHm IuľIiIv mIhc.I 11 in 1 lemur deipiir the far« tbai individual Uhm u ollen ruii-luiucd, irpmmicd» and niiniiiiallv ehallenftiiin ' h ri equally ewenual m add. bowcwet. iliai jtUMHiRb ihe »innen will U»e the ivonl 'f*.ape' In explain iheir irnliiii^
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(Mm   if iinni jiuxhti . oiiipinbU «buicc Uui doo in" hi«  i he ■iniiuiuiuimul ihi|>itiurinriii. Uiiv will ihmne tile II mir I« Mill ill' Miunduiar. evpütUf KM.   In lindei •und why. n -ill !"■ lirl|<hil m tulliru  iHwA iimitlirliti mure ťliMcIv
In rrniinine. to hrr (WhuUUU 'vf ihr >ppr.il «if riiiiumt IkIhhi - ■ delinmull llul i> i In^lil« iiiiiilrmi-J ivrunn of j commonly opfpmcMJ pmi "' ' if'»"mm .iniibl.-ind deleinne nMili> .lion - ii bnomrr «li'if'h« mttUIKC MMCh pHtorni'lu > .-■>mpeni.H<>ry him mm !tw ».inun limine ihry u« ilicm in lllNlU^ the piť« ami Itimvlet "I 'I'm lutnnudexunmcc.I'm nukr> M > Jrji. hiiwryrt, llul ihe women »re-j|«> tntiiHťil about ihopmprim        1           nu; 111 uich in olivuunJy plruurihlr .1 In
11. Ihnt •hiiiUwiriiliriMuhiľaudmtti.t luil-^nvn Iceuiit: ol i-utlt l«y hinbind» and . bMfffl *Su objet* v ih« j>-iiviiy. lici ju«- a drjwt die women* jfteiitmn my mmi ihr immrdui* limilv cireir   V I *ot lain m*r I   jlilvm           mr vdbM i*n r»pL»m
In iliMi fjntilio 1h.1l 1 dcun hu j MW My 01 a r^dgft n im dilleirm Irani j dom R* rrid I nc« nmunlii mm-l. 1 |jr stealer iiumbei of them luve loinm il PKVmn, tP huk the evidence ol their *e I >                mr. In jm rllim n unnlui bothihe leieirmicni
net» wd their ľ« n «rangt of thinn* .tbmit the» 'lirilimiw' hcluviur ihr wmiu-11 luvr wuikril uul t ťotnplci utioiuliri'io« li" u n nun r itidinj.'. ilui mi opt] "'rn* thru fifiul t^du 1 a plam rt hui jIvi Iruniiui/ei the book« liy linking than wuh vilue* more widely ippnwed within An inu «1 rullnrr Hrliirc uniting to ihe ruurin. bow-evrt. I want li> elaborate on die fOnrept »I ew ape ««Hi «ml ihr reaam U11 111 ability m ptudw r »mh lacnunrnt *rul gnili in ihr lint pUrc.
Umh the r»i tpt inpumr «id the n ln.itiuii (cípmi* an tli« »ev'ond tuMTUlotwuirr mimr.li 11 ■                  ihrt i|iiciiony Kehxjiiim in 1 plín j itduilmn in the «lite nl ten -
mm piodmexl In prior <.niiiiii.nn. .ilu-ico nupf ofmouMy m^ru* lh|dii Innn urn: mu- nl being'" unnfhn mmr deuuhle *mc.$ Ii> unilcnUml thrvtiwol the riini.iiKi-
eipcTH-llic    Uir-ll.   ■% H   iirnimrdhv   Ulinť liliu i iHHIilrl il j »vlnime \ h.lll|'i' in their
do Ii>-iLi\ amnui*. tl bciiiino iicinuiy m uiiuir n uithiit t lunu ti-mpuril laa-md Hi tpeťitv pni 11 li hflWl ill, ail nl iri.linu iiuiiagc» 1 intra I c ihn lrriii«n 11* ■hanu* iml lurii-iciiluiiiiit «■ iii^hlv \jlutd h\' tliťW rcjilťn
In titrndin« «o ihr mmirni iniiiiiiiiiľ. jIiiiiii tlie taiinh ol'mtiijin ■ n nlmc I «in puliiiilailv Hl n, k t<\' (lie (Kl ihJl ihcvitrndrd |u n«r f hr nurd cu ,|. in lnu .Ii-Ilii.C «iyi i >ii ihr en.- Iund. ihcv uwd (he teini lucfiily iei di- ' the aei<i|drnymnlb« pn-viK. wht.liih«vbrlkrvr ilu'v Ji.utiipltdirjth timrtlm bcRin m nad * book und are dtjwn turn 10 «nv * hi thi-i.HliĽihji'd, ilicy med ihr word m J mo« lipmaiiw ImIhihi to (jree inbuUni-t in die Miitirwfui vjpie but iicinrtlwIrTi nib-mr vine nf rchel ihcv e»|icnem:c b* «demilŇini; with 1 Iwhnne whwcllfe lUiri n»'l rctcmblc themnira in • Irmu ■ -iin 1-1I i%pti,i' I ilntik ii iitipnruni tn reprculiiťc ill» while diumilion m luutuelv » f-i'-ible betauv U mdjcalr* irwr nnium c m jilmu iclcuet women t'nuri ihr 11 pii-ieni pie*>inn OOOnfW Hi two dillrirni bui rrbted wjy<
llul. (at euinpJtf. wont on in cUbunu luare lulb in ihr toniriumin .|un«ett ibnw jN'uI why ■!■ iiuny huiliuiuh lean tu Irrl ihn Hi iu'd by ihetf «tťť»' leiduiM nei. AKct dcvlitiiii; «idi delt^in 1I1.1 when du' iľj.U hei búdy n ill thr numi bul die lierwrlln DOC die HBt I think llm r« tiir rjwr wmh «hr ntlu-i wonim Um mo-iiiuicd, 'I think men unnni do liui unln« they thermrltvi ne tejden I dim t think nmi Jirnwaput iifiinvllimiinrii il'it'ildmuiHl.' "Ihey air never reJh, out «I theii
body either.' ihc idded     I doll'l OR ll ll'< »linnlull khih-, I ilnnk ihry «ellw.n^ inn
1 ..udí MR nl where the\  lie   Her utuinpluin ,nn,ln«iiTi   hut 1 think a mmui m j In»it nn'i." mdii um liui DCN n .wjir thai readniji not only denuiuh t liijth leve
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ol jurntiMi Itil ji*» ikrWl ihr nidividiul "W ihr huiik tciMW n nimmt I"' !•■■•-(itipunni    Although ihr  b. MI   mrr   ivhji   u  n ilmm  ihr tuml  ilui pi'mipt» thi«
.liiMTijil-tui.   Mt   i% i jdi!.-   mu1   ihn   r.'li i luim   -ituinv   -11- T   f iltii '•'iiihiiii'   ir1'   dtOran
in tiUiiPL' imineiiuirh- ihn 'Im some tri-nn. j Im «I i nett Ire I ihrciirtird bv ihr», very, wiv itm.h ihiriicnrii; I >i« iiiign'ticd ihn ihr men\ reieiiimrni In» liltie W -I« w-iih ihr kind» oi'bouki ihm vtivci in? inditiM. *ml murr in du uith ihr Amk fifc * nJ ihr uiivitv it nil mil iii 1111,11 itv In uliwitli ihr pinii in im-   runic iitriwiin
I bete tt'uutivc olnmumoi were  l •                         ued in ihr ii>n\*nin«»iM I h*d
wiih oihrr irutrn. Ellen, liir nmuiti c. i Immer iirlmr tirw jntVii. nim mained nid tikint.1 nit »I llľl hoiiir. mdli Jlrd ili.U *)ií d tu irid* lín ruirt Uiuiiinil mil M i|"' I linirver. ilu- jililiif, hrt huduud umirimu-t i*|n n t<> liri irjilin^ kau* he HUB her tt> wjiili ihr uinr telrviwiiii ilimv he lui trli.irit Vir hilrt' ihn. dir uid brenne tlw ion nm like ilu kiikk uf pmgrai» uii irliwum ludit She i» ilrhiditiil whni hc j{cl» -i hiltinet* nil m ihr i'ti-tiiiiu ho lili« Im Imttumľt n reiten irtiomi will1 hn iJki pi-iinili lirr tu y,n bi<li in her [l«'i
IVmiv. iiKidici boim-wile in hri middle thifUci, iho uuhuii.l tli.n hfl hiiduiid ill. it' 11 dir iciJiUii. ninth II. irrlt diut hui,'Uk npLuunJ. 'bíd thťie H nolli ii I \ I .'iiitiy' Lite rhViii hudiiiid. l*nmv\ ipiuiir «tu> uirili liri Ol MW li irlrviiiim null hnn Snun, i wiimun in hn tiliiet ilv 'rrjd|t| (Q «ope' »ml «laird with Jinn»! no ImieriicM (hu her hiuluiid will mit primu her lu tormnur tejdmu "lirn he n ready to p> lo ilrrp Shr IMDB U rcjtrcl n ihn linn inrni Hin "«It bei .um ii linii» ihr ji lit tum ol' llnir dir i -m lprmi in in uti.tiv ihr iinik rn(«vjblr hidrrd, the went mi in nur c mim «non to r-pi j m ih.il 'líc ociíUctulty n't«! hrnrll 'š vety »pctul tnut" wlirit the b "und of fcciMWWOCfc.* 'I uke ihr whole *V i'llľ «he u id. 'UtrcJtl.'
Ihn ihcmt- ul'rtitiMDiv iciiliiii- jt a \|vtui t:ili * unmui ŕ'vr* hrrwlrď>m" ituiu tiliiir nilrrvirtn   I lir Niiiitiitem ntt'iim Uirtsrd ihr )>n> <i'. ni'li                i the
hKt llui il fiuNn ihrrn t" l"- tu ihm .mřínům on i nriRle objfa ihjl CM fNDvUl |i|rJ»im* liii (hnntrlvn ifoHr lnieirttiii)(l> rm>ii>th. Itohcil i-.ujtpil In» muni i« it'lileil f jili m m ih.it i.iilniii n 41 i im r 'mi ul jih I um uľ (in nl-r n irTiipi*'-illlv >lip |niun ihr indiviiliulV irUlimi' «iih hi» (i(i| umtrne lu cuiuiruci Oft* OOP» v>'»h ihr unitvn«: ol the work.'" Unlike trtcvnimi tWwtng, wlmh u » very n.nl Utntl DOken hi ihr prrtrnte oťmheii nul «huh prinnii in iilnifw n«ivnt4iiiiii ." imiiiiI inlrrji linn, ulrnl irjitiui* iniinivi ihr rtJilei in hlixk hi" ihr nil-nnunhiitt »"iliI -irr.l |on                   i timn lo mhrr |trople ami in anothrr unii    It
rmi-hi l»r viid. ihm. itui the duM.icn m J rvcim olronuii.,' AcÉBB póplAm ihr itvniun* i iiiw muinrn even j> the >viihiJiJ»i Inun ihi- Ijiinlui umil n'-nr ol lirr lI.iiS inliinlliitiuin.
I u«r the «mu niuiiuriii»i>< ilťlihcr.iely herc beinite ihe Smilhlon wiunrn »pLuiira 0 RH ttm ihey 4W wie tivuiii in ct.jpe iheii hutlWU xul t liiljie» 'pe* m' «rhcH they lead Ruhri. whil n-i<hri|; uin than mat hum ilm tafaMV, * «he rny ilmhiniullv .IniiJiidini; jib I ciiuiUimillv ,1i inn p.« ink ol' ■iirinflng lit the phyvjcil and , i mill' "i Ju'i binilin. i uth ilui ii Milrlv nul periÚMiK thein- hi ocher ttwnlt. the« wnnietl. whu h»V been cdlliJled lo brhrvr ihn (ein .li- .r, iľ-nnull, tnd nitiinlls nitnied It» the emtttmiial miuiiemrnia tit>rtlter\ Jnd wlm «r vrr, pimul ul ihm iliiliin-i in i ■ n i n t u um iiľ »iili n ul In iriľ* i In" iiirmlicii ot ilii'ii I in ill let. :.■ i.Sin.- |>tr. m-!v I». intr n n in initutcly pin in hi Not DtU) " the «iivilv I'livaic. hovretvr. bin n ilto etublei ihein i<i impend lemp-nnilv ihn« iinnlul
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lelauuiwhnn iihI to ihfiíw up J wieeii bci>*rwn ihentwlvn uid ihr arriia wlimr lliev Jit tci|iliml lo ílu mini ni ihm relating li' • ■• Iirr*
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