Therapy process: What we see depends from where we look. Jan Roubal 2021 Process of change in Gestalt therapy three perspectives 1. mono-personal pespective 2. bi-personal perspective 3. field theory perspective change Case example: Different ways of working • Steven came because of his sleeplessness and pain in the stomach. • he suffers from the despotic behaviour of his current boss in his job • this boss is similar to Steven’s father, a soldier who died six years ago • always submissive towards his father • he also chose his current job according to the father’s wish • the way of contacting others influenced by this experience with his father • he learned to live according to the expectations of others Mono-personal perspective Conceptualisation: • Lack of support for learning to recognize his own needs • Lack of support to step self-consciously into the relationships with the environment to fulfil his needs • Creative adjustment - fulfilling the needs of others. • Retroflection of own impulses, needs and wishes. 17th session: Mono-personal perspective In the first part of the session, Steven speaks quietly, looking at the floor and breathing very shallowly. • Therapist: “Could you now for a little while focus on how you are breathing?” • Steven: “Well, I am not breathing, in fact...” • Therapist: “Hmm..., and how does that feel?” • Steven: “I don’t know... Unpleasant, I have no power for anything.” • Therapist: “I see. You feel you have no power for anything... Well, what would you need then?” • Steven: “I don’t know... nothing... Do you think that... ehh? “ • Therapist: “What would your body need?” • Steven: “Well, to breath in, that’s clear. But for some reason, I do not do it... strange...” • Therapist: “What seems strange to you?” • Steven: “That I need something and I don’t do it.” Mono-personal perspective Interventions: • suggestions for increasing awareness • in a supportive relationship • lead to recognition of a repeating pattern • later to taking responsibility for the pattern • and developing an alternative way. Bi-personal perspective Conceptualisation: • After the formative experience with his father, Steven is used to put himself into a submissive, even obedient position. • We don’t see the phenomena mentioned above (retroflection of impulses, needs, and wishes) as belonging to the client now, • rather we see them as co-created by both the client and the therapist in the therapeutic situation. Bi-personal perspective Steven speaks quietly, looking at the floor and breathing very shallowly. • Therapist: “Could you tell me how you are feeling right now?” • Steven: “What?... Well, just normal...” • Therapist: “I noticed you are almost not breathing.” • Steven: “Yeah, that’s ... I ... yeah, you’re right, I am not breathing.” • Therapist: “Is there anything I could do that it would be easier for you to breath now here with me?” • Steven: “What? ... That’s a strange question... oh, please excuse me, I did not mean to criticize or...” • Therapist: “That’s fine with me... and how is your breathing now?” • Steven: “It’s better!... How did you do that?” • Therapist: “I don’t know, we might have done that together somehow... Don’t you have an idea, how could it happen?” Bi-personal perspective Interventions: • The crucial process is happening on the relational level now. • On one hand, Steven and the therapist are repeating the usual pattern with Steven being submissive and therapist speaking from a position of an authority. • On the other hand, however, Steven has a chance for going through a new relational experience • with an authority, who is interested in his opinion and is willing to adjust to his needs. • Such a repeating experience with the therapist can lead to Steven’s bigger self-confidence and courage to step forward in the contact with others. Field theory perspective Conceptualisation: • Insensitivity to own needs and retroflection are phenomena of the field • which exceed both the client as an individual, • and also the relationship of the client and the therapist. • These phenomena show how the field gets organized. • Client and therapist are functions of the actual field organisation, • they are taken by the flow of the situation. Field theory perspective Steven speaks quietly, looking at the floor and breathing very shallowly. • The therapist notices that and then he switches his attention from the client back to himself, to his own experience here and now, especially to his body. • He realizes that also he is not breathing freely. He is sitting on the chair slightly leaning forward and trying to find out what would be a good way of working with such a inhibited client. • After becoming aware of this, he leans back to the chair, breathes in and relaxes his body when breathing out. • He lets go the expectation from himself (“I should find a good way of working with such a client”), and grounds himself through the contact of his feet with the ground. • He feels more relaxed, looks at Steven, and smiles with a relief. • Steven looks at him questioningly, then looks back to the floor. • After a while of silence, Steven turns to the therapist: “You know, in fact I would like to talk with you about something different now...” He speaks more loudly and watches the therapist, his breathing is deeper. Field theory perspective Interventions: • The therapist becomes aware of being taken by a field force, • and he changes his own way of being in the situation. • The therapist does not try to change Steven or their relationship. • He is just aware of what is happening to him, • he lets it be and adjusts his way of dwelling the situation. • A new figure can now emerge from the transformed background. • Through accepting the situation as it is, a chance for its transformation opens up. What is changing Psychopath ology symptoms What the therapy aims for How can the therapist support change Dominant self- function Theoretical third party Metaphor mono- person al perspe ctive The clients’ functioning in the relation with the environment Limiting fixed patterns created originally as creative adjustments New, updated creative adjustments Raising awareness in the supportive/ challenging contact. Ego- function. What the client and the therapist do in therapy. One-person models of functioning (contact styles, sequence of experience). Tree and gardener. bi- person al perspe ctive The relationship between client and therapist. Individual expressions of a lack of support in the relationship Creating an authentic relational experience where the symptoms are not needed any more. Enabling a new relational experience by relating to the client openly, honestly, and genuinely as a person. Personality -function. Who are the client and the therapist for each other. Co-creative and dialogical approach (inclusion, confirmation, presence, commitment to dialogue). Relational dance: old dance and new steps. field theory perspe ctive The way the field gets organized here and now. Individual expressions of absences of the field. Spontaneou s flow of presence. Letting oneself being taken by the field’s forces and transforming own way of Id-function. Bodily sensations emerging as a function of Field theory, Paradoxical theory of change, emergent self, Client and therapist in the river, being moved by