A: Will you marry me?
B: Oh, I would rather keep it as it is now. I am not sure I want to get married but I would love to cohabit with you atleast for a few more years you know. Before we actually know each other.
A: Yes, I understand you but you have to understand me that marriage is the best way to raise our children. We will have community property, children will live with both parents, we will have the same surname...we will live in the same house and besides your parents are the best!
B: Yes, you are right but I do not want to have community property, I want to live with my parents not with you, atleast for now, we will not have to spend a lot of money for wedding ceremony, there will be no difficulties with wedding ceremony and do all the paperwork.
A: Okay, I will propose you later.
B: Thank you, you are the best!