12 The Emotional Brain geometric rise in the interconnections in brain circuitry. The larger the number of such connections, the greater the range of possible responses. The neocortex allows for the subtlety and complexity of emotional life, such as the ability to have feelings about our feelings. There is more neocortex-to-limbic system in primates than in other species—and vastly more in humans—suggesting why we are able to display a far greater range of reactions to our emotions, and more nuance. While a rabbit or rhesus has a restricted set of typical responses to fear, the larger human neocortex allows a far more nimble repertoire—including calling 911. The more complex the social system, the more essential is such flexibility—and there is no more complex social world than our own.12 But these higher centers do not govern all of emotional life; in crucial matters of the heart—and most especially in emotional emergencies—they can be said to defer to the limbic system. Because so many of the brain's higher centers sprouted from or extended the scope of the limbic area, the emotional brain plays a crucial role in neural architecture. As the root from which the newer brain grew, the emotional areas are intertwined via myriad connecting circuits to all parts of the neocortex. This gives the emotional centers immense power to influence the functioning of the rest of the brain— including its centers for thought. Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking Life is a comedy for those woo think and a tragedy for those who feel. Horace Waipoie It was a hot August afternoon in 1963, the same day that the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., gave his "I Have-a Dream" speech to a civil rights march on Washington. On that day Richard Robles, a seasoned burglar who had just been pare led from a three-year sentence for the more than one hundred break-ins he had pulled to support a heroin habit, decided to do one more. He wanted to renounce crime, Robles later claimed, but he desperately needed money for his girlfriend and their three-year-old daughter. The apartment he broke into that day belonged to two young women, twenty-one-year-old Janice Wylie, a researcher at Newsweek magazine, and twenty-three-year-old Emily Hoffert, a grade-school teacher. Though Robles chose the apartment on New York's swanky Upper East Side to burglarize because he thought no one would be there, Wviie was home. Threatening her with a knife, Robles tied her up. As he was leaving, Hoffert came home. To make good his escape, Robles began to tie her up, too. As Robles tells the tale years later, while he was tying up Hoffert, Janice ; Wylie warned him he would not get away with this crime: She would ^remember his face and help the police track him down. Robles, who had | promised himself this was to have been his last burglary, panicked at that, Incompletely losing control. In a frenzy, he grabbed a soda bottle and clubbed 13 14 The Emotional Bkain Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking 15 the -women until they were unconscious, then, awash In rage and fcai, he slashed and stabbed them over and over with a kitchen knife. Looking back on that moment some twenty-five years later, Robles lamented, "I just went bananas. My head just exploded." To this day Robles has lots of time to regret those few minutes of rage unleashed. At this writing he is still in prison, some three decades later, for what became known as the "Career Girl Murders." Such emotional explosions are neural hijackings. At those moments, evidence suggests, a center in the limbic brain proclaims an emergency, recruiting the rest of the brain to its urgent agenda. The hijacking occurs in an instant, triggering this reaction crucial moments before the neocortex, the thinking brain, has had a chance to glimpse fully what is happening, let alone decide if it is a good idea. The hallmark of such a hijack is that once the moment passes, those so possessed have the sense of not knowing what came over them. These hijacks are by no means isolated, horrific incidents that lead to brutal crimes like the Career Girl Murders. In less catastrophic form—but not necessarily less intense—they happen to us with fair frequency. Think back to the last time you "lost it," blowing up at someone—your spouse or child, or perhaps the driver of another car—to a degree that later, with some reflection and hindsight, seemed uncalled for. In all probability, that, too, was such a hijacking, a neural takeover which, as we shall see, originates in the ^mygdala, a center in the Umbic brain. Not all limbic hijackings are distressing. When a joke strikes someone as so uproarious that their laughter is almost explosive, that, too, is a limbic response. It is. at work also in moments of intense joy: When Dan Jansen, after several heartbreaking failures to capture an Olympic Gold Medal for speed skating (whicji he had vowed to do for his dying sister), finally won the Gold in the 1.000-meter race in the 1994 Winter Olympics in Norway, his wife was so overcome by the excitement and happiness that she had to be rushed to emergency physicians at rinkside. THG S01T Of- /ILL PrtSSION In humans the amygdala (from the Greek word for "almond") is an almond-shaped cluster of interconnected structures perched above the brainstem, near the bottom of the limbic ring. There are two amygdalas, one on each; side of the brain, nestled toward the side of the head. The human amygdala is ; relatively large compared to that in any of our closest evolutionary cqusins, the primates. The hippocampus and the amygdala were the two key parts of the primitive "nose brain" that, in evolution, gave rise to the cortex and then the neocortex. To this day these limbic structures do much or most of the brain's learning and remembering; the amygdala is the specialist for emotional matters. If the amygdala is severed from the rest of the brain, the result is a striking inability to gauge the emotional significance of events; this condition is sometimes called "affective blindness." Lacking emotional weight, encounters lose their hold.,One young man whose amygdala hadI been. surgjcatty removed to control severe seizures becamejcornpletely uninterested in people, preferring to sit in isolation with no human contact.. While he was perfectly capable of conversation, he no longer recognized close friends, relatives, or even his mother, and remained impassive in the face of their anguish at his indifference. Without an amygdala he seemed to have lost all recognition of feeling, as well as any feeling about feelings.1 The amygdala acts as a storehouse of emotional memory, and thus of significance itself; life without the amygdala is a life stripped of personal meanings. More than affection is tied to the amygdala;, all passion depends onjtj^' ^Animals that have their amygdala removed or severed lack fear and rage, lose the urge to compete or cooperate, and no longer have any sense of their place in their kind's social order; emotion is blunted or absent Tears, an emotional signal unique to humans, are triggered by the amygdala and a i nearby structure, the cingulate gyrus; being held, stroked, or otherwise fcomforted soothes these same brain regions, stopping the sobs. Without an --'amygdala, there are no tears of sorrow to soothe. Joseph LeDoux, a neuroscientist at the Center for Neural Science at New pfork University, was the first to discover the key role of the amygdala in the notional brain.2 LeDoux is part of a fresh breed of neuroscientists who aw on innovative methods and technologies that bring a previously nown level of precision to mapping the brain at work, and so can lay mysteries of mind that earlier generations of scientists have found npenetrable. His findings on the circuitry of the emotional brain overthrow ong-standing notion about the limbic system, putting the amygdala at the nter of the action and placing other limbic structures in very different isles.' eDoux's research explains how the amygdala can take control over what do even as the thinking brain, the neocortex, is still coming to a decision. 16 The Emotional Brain Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking _ 17 As we shall see, the workings of the amygdala and its interplay with the neocortex are at die heart of emotional intelligence. TH€ li€UML TRIPWIR€ Most intriguing for understanding the power of emotions in mental life are those moments of impassioned action that we later regret, once the dust has settled; the question is how we so easily become so irrational. Take, for example, a young woman who drove two hours to Boston to have brunch and spend the day with her boyfriend. During brunch he gave her a present she'd been wanting for months, a hard-to-find art print brought back from Spain. But her delight dissolved the moment she suggested that after brunch they go to a matinee of a movie she'd been wanting to see and her friend stunned her by saying he couldn't spend the day with her because he had softball practice. Hurt and incredulous, she got up in tears, left the cafe, and, on impulse, threw the print in a garbage can. Months later, recounting the incident, it's not walking out she regrets, but the loss of the print It is in moments such as these—when impulsive feeling overrides the rational—that the newly discovered role for the amygdala is pivotal. Incoming signals' from the senses let the amygdala scan every experience for trouble. This puts the amygdala in a powerful post in mental life, something like a psychological sentinel, challenging every situation, every perception, with but oije kind of question in mind, the most primitive: "Is this something I hate? That hurts me? Something I fear?" If so—if the moment at hand somehow draws a "Yes"—the amygdala reacts instantaneously, like a neural tripwire, telegraphing a message of crisis to all parts of the brain. In the brain's architecture, the amygdala is poised something like an alarm company where operators stand ready to send out emergency calls to the fire department, police, Wid a neighbor whenever a home security system signals trouble. When it sounds an alarm of, say, fear, it sends urgent messages to every major part of the brain: it triggers the secretion of the body's fight-or-flight hormones, mobilizes the centers for movement, and activates the cardiovascular system, the muscles, and the gut.4 Other circuits from the amygdala signal the secretion of emergency dollops of the hormone norepinephrine to heighten the reactivity of key brain areas, including those that make the senses more alert, in effect setting the brain on edge. Additional signals from the amygdala tell the brainstem to fix the face in a fearful expression, freeze unrelated movements the muscles had underway, speed heart rate and raise blood pressure, slow breathing. Others rivet attention on the source of the fear, and prepare the muscles to react accordingly. Simultaneously, cortical memory systems are shuffled to retrieve any knowledge relevant to the emergency at hand, taking precedence over other strands of thought. And these are just part of a carefully coordinated array of changes the amygdala orchestrates as it commandeeis areas throughout the brain (for a more detailed account, see Appendix birds, fish, and reptiles revolves around it, since their very survival depends • on constantly scanning for predators or prey. "This primitive, minor brain ; system in mammals is the main brain system in non-mammals," says LeDoux. j¥It offers a very rapid way to turn on emotions. But it's a quick-and-dirry |process; the cells are fast, but not very precise." Such imprecision in, say, a squirrel, is fine, since it leads to erring on the " ; of safety, springing away at the first sign of anything that might signal a soming enemy, or springing toward a hint of something edible. But in jjjuman emotional Life that imprecision can have disastrous consequences for - relationships, since it means, figuratively speaking, we can spring at or ay from the wrong thing—or person. (Consider, for example, the waitress do dropped a tray of six dinners when she glimpsed a woman with a huge, ■ 24 The Emotional Brain Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking 25 curly mane of red hair—exactly like the woman her ex-husband had left her for.) Such inchoate emotional mistakes are based on feeling prior to thought. LeDoux calls it "precognitiye emotion," a reaction based on neural bits, and pieces of sensory information that have not been fully sorted out and integrated into a recognizable object. It's a very raw form of sensory information, something like a neural Name That Tune, where, instead of snap judgments of melody being made on the basis of just a few notes, a whole perception is grasped on the basis of the first few tentative parts. If the amygdala senses a sensory pattern of import emerging, it jumps to a conclusion, triggering its reactions before there is full confirming evidence—or any confirmation at all. Small wonder we can have so litde insight into the murk of our more explosive emotions, especially while they still hold us in thrall. The amygdala can react in a delirium of rage or fear before the cortex knows what is going on because such caw emotion is triggered independent of, and prior to, thought. TH€ €MOT10Mr1L r*lririr1G€R A friend's six-year-old daughter Jessica was spending her first night ever sleeping over at a playmate's, and it was unclear who was more nervous about it, mother or daughter. While the mother tried not to let Jessica see the intense anxiety she felt, her tension peaked near midnight (hat night, as she was getting ready for bed and heard the phone ring. Dropping her toothbrush, she raced t

th—it is not just IQ, but emotional intelligence that matters. Indeed, ntellect cannot work at its best without emotional intelligence. Ordinarily the f :omplementarity of Jimbic system and neocortex, amygdala and prefrontal J obes, means each L$:a full partner in mental life. When these partners interact i veil, emotional intelligence rises—as does intellectual ability. This turns the olcfunderstanding of the tension between reason and feelin >n its head: it is not that we want to do away with emotion and put reason irjl its place, as Erasmus had it, but instead find the intelligent balance of the two. The old paradigm held an ideal of reason freed of the pull of emotion. The new paradigm urges us to harmonize head and heart. To do that well in our lives means we must first understand more exactly what it means to use emotion intelligently.