MUNI Mindful Minds
Week Three – Gathering the Scattered Mind
Reflection on the Past Week
During the first and second week of mindfulness practice, you familiarized yourself with the basic principles of mindfulness and learned foundational exercises focusing on body and breath awareness. You may have also become more aware of how our minds automatically and constantly evaluate things, how quickly our thoughts change, and how we engage in certain activities without giving them full attention.
You have been introduced to exercises that help stabilize our often scattered minds and enhance our ability to concentrate on the present moment. Through these practices, we learn to cultivate patience, kindness, and curiosity, which are essential aspects of mindfulness. By integrating these approaches into our exercises, we establish a strong foundation for our minds to become more stable and focused, even in moments when we are not intentionally striving for it. Alongside informal practices like the 10 Finger Gratitude Practice and 50:50 Awareness, they form the basis for establishing and developing mindfulness in our daily lives.
You may have also realized how challenging it is to incorporate new things into your life and find time for them, especially when they don't have an immediate impact on our struggles and life dissatisfaction. We would like to encourage you to continue with the practice despite these challenges. Mindfulness requires the same effort as learning to play a musical instrument.
One of the biggest misconceptions about mindfulness training is the idea that the goal of meditation is to stop thinking, to be thoughtless. However, that is not possible in reality. Our minds continuously generate a stream of evolving associations. Thoughts trigger emotions, and vice versa. Paradoxically, this stream is even more pronounced when we try to do nothing and simply relax. Behind this paradox lies the activation of the "default mode network" in our brain, which is a neural network that activates during periods of rest. We can call it the "baseline setting" of our mind, where our learned and natural habits of automatic reactions are stored. It is active, for example, during daydreaming. The metabolic activity of our brain is even 20 times higher when we are at rest than when we are engaged in, for instance, solving a mathematical problem.
Don't lose heart – striving in terms of clinging to results is not the essence of mindfulness. On the contrary, it involves friendly and healthy effort to incorporate self-care into our daily routine. Invite the attitude of non-judgment and self-kindness back into your practice again and again.
"Be kind to yourself, be patient, and trust that when we strive for the right things, results will come naturally"
It is necessary to persevere and trust that things are as they should be. The good news is that mindfulness can be practiced in many different ways and adapted to various lifestyles. Finding time for formal meditations is important, but it's worth reminding ourselves that mindfulness can also be practiced within everyday routine activities.
Adapted from Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World (Williams & Penman, 2011: 111-133).
Enjoy week three consciously 💛
Week Three – Gathering the Scattered Mind
The meditation exercises we practice every day help us develop a more stable attention that is infused with the attitudes of genuine interest, kindness, and patience towards our experiences.
During the third mindful week:
- we will begin to intersperse our days with moments of stopping, resting, and focusing on our anchor (breath, sensations of feet touching the ground, sitting, hands). We will learn the Three-Step Breathing Space, which, with regular practice, will help us manage stress and disengage from automatic patterns and reactions of our mind.
- We will also incorporate elements of mindful movement based on very simple stretching exercises into our practice. Although these exercises are very simple and undemanding, they will allow you to explore your physical and mental boundaries and observe your reactions when you reach these boundaries, thereby further connecting the mind with the body. You will gradually learn how sensitively the body responds to unpleasant sensations associated with excessive focus on achieving a goal, and you will begin to notice how tense, angry, or unhappy you are if things don't go as you would like them to.
When we rely solely on thoughts and do not feel our body, which is the source of emotions/feelings, we can quickly get hurt or fail to recognize an unpleasant sensation that warns us of danger. An example could be ignoring uncomfortable pressure in the stomach when we take on additional obligations and later regret bitterly what we promised. Being in good contact with the sensations in our body is preventive because it informs us in time about what is approaching.
1. Mindful Movement
Instructions
We recommend performing this exercise once a day throughout the week and following it with the Breath and Body Meditation. You can either follow the recording or read the instructions below and proceed accordingly.
Lifting Both Arms
- Start by standing, barefoot or in socks, with your feet shoulder-width apart. Relax your knees, allowing your legs to bend slightly. Align your feet so that they are parallel to each other.
- With an inhale, begin to slowly and attentively extend your arms out to the sides until your arms are parallel to the ground. Then exhale and, with the next inhale, slowly and attentively raise your arms overhead. As your arms move, observe if you fully experience the sensations in the muscles that lift and keep them tense.
- Breathe freely at a natural pace and continue to stretch upward as if you were pushing your fingertips towards the sky. Your feet are firmly grounded.
- Take enough time to fully feel the sensations that the stretching evokes in your muscles and joints. Notice all the sensations from your feet and legs, up through your torso, shoulders, arms, hands, and fingers. Stay stretched for a while and observe what is happening with your breath. Let it flow freely in and out.
- While holding this position, be aware of each inhale and exhale, and remain open to any changes in sensations and feelings in your body. If you notice increasing tension and discomfort, also be open to these sensations.
- After a while, when you feel ready, allow your arms to slowly descend. Lower them very gradually and notice how the sensations in your arms change during this process. You may also observe the contact of your clothes with your skin. Pay close attention to all of these sensations until your arms hang freely from your shoulders.
- If your eyes were open, you can now gently close them.
- After each stretch, focus your attention on your breath and the sensations in your entire body. Notice the effect the stretching had on your body.
Fruit Picking
- Open your eyes and attentively extend each arm upward as if you were trying to pick some fruit that is out of your reach. Look beyond your fingers and fully pay attention to the physical sensations and your breath. You can raise the heel of the foot opposite to the extended arm.
- Observe the stretching throughout your entire body, from the fingertips of the extended arm to the toes of the opposite foot.
- Once you release the stretch, place the heel back on the ground and slowly lower your arm. You can observe the shape and color of your fingers as you do this.
- Finally, turn your face forward, close your eyes, tune into your body, and become aware of the sensations that arise after the stretching. Also, notice your breath. Then you can continue the stretching to the opposite side.
Side Bending
- Now, slowly and attentively place your hands on your hips and let your whole body lean to the left side. The hips may tilt in the opposite direction, so that your entire body forms an arch from your right foot through the hips and torso.
- Imagine that your body is between two glass panels, one in front of you and one behind you, so that it remains in one plane without leaning or tilting.
- With an inhale, return to the center, and with an exhale, slowly bend to the other side. It is not important how far you bend to the side. What matters is the level of attention you give to the movement.
- What sensations do you notice after the stretch?
Shoulder Circles
- First, completely relax your arms and then lift your shoulders up towards your ears as far as you can.
- Then, pull your shoulders back as if you wanted your shoulder blades to touch each other.
- Next, completely lower your shoulders
- Finally, push them forward as far as you can, as if you wanted your shoulders to touch each other.
- The circling follows the natural rhythm of your breath, so you inhale for half of the movement and exhale for the other half.
- Continue the circling smoothly and attentively as long as you can, first in one direction and then the other.
Adapted from "Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World" (Williams & Penman, 2011: 118-122).
Important notes
- Mindful movement can have different effects on each individual. For some, it may be a pleasant exercise, while others may find it unpleasant. Through close observation, we can discover not only how we feel during each movement but also how we relate to them. For example, we may notice that while stretching, we clench our teeth, frown, clench our fists, or tighten our buttocks. It is important to be aware not only of the movement itself but also of our attitude towards it. The exercise reflects the same habits in our lives, such as experiencing impatience when striving for something.
- Remember the principle of non-striving. The intention of mindful movement is not to perform physical exertion or to stretch well. It is important to be aware of and notice what the movement evokes. During stretching, a range of sensations can gradually emerge, from pleasant to unpleasant. Try to examine your sensations with full awareness, and you may discover that some parts of your body are extremely stiff because they reflect stress and worries.
- Certain muscle groups (often the neck, shoulders, diaphragm, and abdomen) can be very tense. The goal is not to change anything but to be fully aware of how our body is, where our boundaries are, and how tension arises in the body as a response to our own thoughts and emotions: the tension in the body is the tension of the mind.
- Notice how negative self-evaluation can quickly arise during the exercise, such as feeling unable to manage or thinking it is pointless when we struggle. Remember the foundational attitudes that Mindfulness comprises. Explore what it is like to trust the present moment, to notice how our mind constantly judges everything, and discover what it is like to not strive for anything, just flowing and being with the movement.
Adapted from "Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World" (Williams & Penman, 2011: 118-125).
- In the first week, we familiarized ourselves with meditation Mindfulness of Body and Breath. From the awareness of the body as a whole, we narrowed the beam of attention to the breath.
- In the second week, while practicing Body Scan, we shifted the focus of attention from one part of the body to another.
- This week, we introduce a new meditation, Breath and Body, in which we will start with a tightly focused attention on the breath and then expand the attention to encompass the whole body. We will explore that our attention is like the lens of a telescope, where we can bring a certain part of the body very close and examine it, and conversely, when we choose, we can expand it and encompass the entire body. We recommend continuing this exercise after mindful movement. It turns out that after consciously stretching the body, we perceive it more easily, and the experience of meditation can have a different dimension.
2. Mindful Walking
Another opportunity to move mindfully this week is a practice called Mindful Walking. Create your own "mindful" pathway at home, school, or work, about 5-10 meters long. Walk along it every day, back and forth, for 10 minutes. Notice the sensations in your feet or perceive your body as a whole.
3. 3-Step Breathing Space
This technique is the golden thread of this program, as it can be practiced truly anywhere, it is very short (even just one minute), and effective. The breathing space it provides gives us an opportunity to step out of autopilot and connect with the present moment.
Instructions
STEP 1: Becoming aware
- Intentionally adopt an upright and dignified posture, whether sitting or standing. If possible, gently close your eyes.
- Then, direct your awareness to your inner experience and acknowledge it by asking yourself: What is my experience in this moment?
- What thoughts are passing through the mind? Try your best to recognize thoughts as mental events.
- What emotions are present? Turn your attention towards any discomfort or unpleasant feelings, acknowledging them without attempting to change them.
- What bodily sensations are present right now? You can quickly scan your body for any sensations of tightness or tension, acknowledging them without seeking to alter them in any way.
STEP 2: Gathering and focusing attention
- Now, shift your attention to a narrow "spotlight" on the physical sensations of the breath. Focus closely on the physical sensations of the breath in the abdomen... the expansion as you breathe in... and the release as you breathe out. Follow the breath throughout its entire cycle. Utilize each breath as an opportunity to ground yourself in the present moment.
- If your mind wanders, gently guide your attention back to the breath.
STEP 3: Expanding attention
- Next, expand your awareness to encompass the broader field of sensations, including your entire body, posture, and facial expression. Imagine that your whole body is breathing.
- If you notice any sensations of discomfort or tension, feel free to direct your attention towards them, allowing the breath to flow into and around those sensations. By doing so, you are exploring the sensations and cultivating a sense of friendliness towards them, rather than attempting to change them. If they cease to demand your attention, return to sitting, being aware of your entire body, moment by moment.
Adapted from Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World (Williams & Penman, 2011:130-131).
Tip
It can be helpful to imagine that your awareness during this mini-meditation takes the shape of an hourglass (see image bellow).
- In the first step, it is wide open, recognizing any thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and impulses to do something.
- The second step of the exercise resembles the narrowing of an hourglass. Here, we anchor ourselves in the present moment.
- The third step is the expansion of the lower part of the hourglass. Once again, we open our attention to its full width, creating space for things in our lives. We perceive life as it is and prepare ourselves for the next moment of our day.
This exercise reminds us that the state of our mind is not a fixed fact, but a process that results from the interplay of thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and impulses to act. All these components arise and pass away, and we can become aware of this.
Adapted from Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World (Williams & Penman, 2011: 131-132)
Home Practice for Week Three
Main practices
- Mindful Movement (9 min) followed by Breath and Body (8 min) – everyday
- Mindful Walking (10 min) – everyday
New habits in everyday life
- 3-Step Breathing Space (3 min) – twice daily, at set times that you have decided in advance.
- 10 Fingers of Gratitude – everyday
- 50:50 Awareness – everyday
Please do not distribute or reproduce this work without the permission of the authors.
This program was created with the kind permission of Professor Mark Williams and the Oxford Mindfulness Center, who allowed us to use their materials as sources. It is a unique integration of the original program by the mentioned authors and our clinical and theoretical knowledge and skills.
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Williams, J.M.G., & Penman, D. (2011). Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World. London: Piatkus.
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