Life  position  and   Education Dr. Sylvia  Schachner,  TSTA-­‐E sylviaschachner@gmx.at BERNE:  The  young child, early in  the process of script formation, “already has certain convictions about himself and the people around him and the world.” These  convictions can be summarizedas:-­‐ 1.  I’m OK   2.  I’m not  OK 3.  You’reOK 4.  You’re not  OK   Represent fundamental  stances a  person takes up about the essential  value he  perceives in  himself and others.   Once the child has adopted one of the life positions,   he/she is likely to construct all  the rest of his/her  script to fit  in  with it.   Every  psychological game,script and destiny is based on  one of this four positions.(  Berne) THE  FOUR  LIFE  POSTIONS: Can  be defined as one’s basic beliefs about self and others which are used to “justify”  decisions and behaviour. 1.  I’m OK,You’re OK 2.  I’m not  OK,You’re OK 3.  I’m OK,You’re not  OK 4.  I’m not  OK,You’re not  OK   The  life position of the trainer Influences • his training style • his relationship to the students • his expectations of successful training methods +/-­‐:  trainer is the competent one,  student has to follow -­‐à overadaptionor rebellion -­‐/+:  the trainer try's to be perfect,  don't feel competent , has problemswith disciplineordon't take his professional  roleof leadingprocesse -­‐à distortion,  resistance,  non  interest or symbiosis -­‐/-­‐ :  the trainer is disappointedandfrustrated,   don't expect some effortsfrom the students. -­‐à automaticallywork,  no effort and relationship,  indifference,   passivityand sometimes violence +/+:  trainer has a  realisticawarenessabout own capacity and the capacityofthe students,   he  or she and the students are in  a  cocreativeprocess,   learninghappensin  an  adult  ego state,  process and content orientated -­‐à belief  that the trainer and the students do  their best,   what is possiblefor them at  the moment.